Thursday, June 25, 2009

Marriage is SO overrated ; Can we just go together forever?

Could you honestly sit up here and tell me that you can wake up EVERYDAY to the same person?

think about it ...

REALLY think about it..

you think that this person is the person you wanna spend you're life with.
The person you want to take care of through sickness,death,wealth whatever.

personally its all BULLSHIT!

People steady callin these females/guys wifey/hubby and that they're the best they've ever had and you can't see yourself without them in their life.*side-eye

No boo boo he/ shes the best you've ever had right now.You can't see your self without him/her RIGHT NOW. Believe me shit gon' change 2-10 years down the line.

You're gonna find a new wifey/hubby..trust

Its always gonna be someone finer.someone sweeter.someone 10x's better than the female/male you're with now.

And its up to you to decide if you have the willpower to stick it through with that person.

I'm sick of seeing people getting married and then 4 years later after 2 kids get a divorce because of unreconciled differences in the relationship.Crap !

Negroe if you put a ring on my finger we together forever.
If there's something wrong you come to me about it.
If you cheated let me know ; so i can get even lol.
If you wanna spice up the sex let me know we can do that shit together.
If we get into and argument lets fight and get what the fuck is wrong off our chests ;
but never get a divorce..that shit is too messy for my taste. Especially if children are involved. I'm a product of divorced parents..me personally i wasn't scarred by it at an young age but it did bother me in my tweenie years.Now that i live with him i clearly see why they got a divorce.from both sides of the party my dads a selfish man who has a taste for young 20 year old women and a gambling problem and my mother is a intimidating control freak with a streak of crazy[no im not ashamed to say it]

Personally i'm going the ole' classic black southern route and just go together with someone forever lol..imma have a man with whom i have kids by and when im 50 and all the kids are grown and gone to college i'll think it'll finally be time for us to settle down..i know you aint goin no where at 50 lol.

A little venting...

Okaye so i haven't blogged in a minute so this ones gonna be pretty long.

Issue #1: So men..*sigh...why do you have to be so damn selfish.maybe its my dad in particular but geez.so heres the scoop i recently graduated june 9,2009. But before then my dad asked what i wanted as my grad present(s) i simply said a new camera [$130 tops] and for my belly button to be pierced ; he says okaye end of conversation. So one day he waltzes in the house with a big as box && 2 bags from gamestop.He opens the PS3 box and as he begins to plug it up ever so casually tells me its my graduation present *side-eye.Hold up wait i cotton pickin minute. You just spent 3hunnit dollars on somethin that i don't even want OR play and call my grad present.need a remind you he plays it more than i do i have one game sitting up there and i have yet to get my piercing.The point im tryna make here is men/dads are not about to buy anything that doesn't benift them in any kinda way.

Issue #2: I'm a bitch && I'm not afraid to admit. The sooner people realize that thats who I am the more sleep they will recieve at night. Why am i a bitch you ask? I'm unapologetic ; point blank. If i say something and it hurts your feelins then oh damn well. If i apologize to you when i meant what i said its not gonna be sincere. If i didn't mean it by all means allow me to apologize to you.But if you call yourself bein upset with me i'm not losing any kinda sleep.Realize i DON'T have to talk to you. I can go through life with acquaintances.I don't need to be around you. I cut people off in a heart beat and don't think twice about it family friends it don't matter . And when i'm ready to talk to you or just don't give a fk about the situation that got me mad in the first place i will. And i'm not gonna sit up here and say i keep it 100% real cos i don't.. i keep it prolly 90%.i do keep shit from people..depending on who they are ..if they're SENSiTiVE as hell and can't handle what the fuck i'm about to tell them then of course imma lie to them. Or i just flat out don't want people in my business.I don't care who you are you don't need to know every inch and retrospect of my life especially the mistakes i've made or the decisions that i make..its truly none of your business.And don't sit up there and say you know me..because you don't..you know what i allow you to know. but you'll never really know me. you know the assumptions , the surface and thats about it. unless you sit up there and study me like imma damn monkey or i come to you about EVERYTHING then you don't know me. I gurantee you its atleast 3 people that TRULY know me.

*sigh..i think thats it

R.I.P Michael Jackson 1958-2009


I don't even know what to say right now.The man our parents as well as us grew up on is gone. The only thing we can really do is shed a few tears and celebrate the legacy he left behind. He will have an everlasting mark on the world from his Music Movies[ we all now that man didn't have a video no less than 5 minutes lol]to his performances on stage. Love you forever and always M.Jackson.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

I Fkin Love Her

In A Perfect World is hands-down one of my favorites albums
of OH!9..its freakin ridiculous. If you haven't sat down and listened you it yet you need to. Where Did He Go?, Tell Him The Truth?,High Heels,Slow Dance, the list goes on & on. There hasn't been one song that i haven't liked yet. In my personal opinion she shits on beyonce. Vocally she not on her level yet,but look wise && style wise she got her. No Homo but Keri is a bad bxtch! Point blank period I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE her. kudos to miss keri.

Friday, June 12, 2009

Btw my name is Kourtney *side-eye



Hella funny...

Road Runners Sister


*side-eye....*cough ROAD RUNNER *cough...let me stop hating on rhianna..but seriously..she just need to cut this shit off.

My Guilty Pleasure


*sigh...so i must say College Hill : South Beach is one of my guiltiest pleasures. point blank period i'm addicted to HGM's [hot ghetto messes]. You have Milan an arrogant self absorbant pageant queen.Allison a bisexual hippie who has beef with a hot comb. Kathryn..well you can't understand ish she be sayin'.Brandon who thinks everybody && they mama is jealous of him..*syke! sweetie you are not that cute.Paul well first off what is he..is he a brotha or is he straddling the line don't get me wrong hes a cutie..eitha way he just another brotha tryna play hard to get [we all secretly know he wants kaye ,we'll see what happens at the reunion]. Kyle....*sigh...kyle kyle kyle...a homosexual bipolar diva ; && I love him to death "can't wait to wrap my lips around them ribs"...best episode ever! And Chris && Tiffany the invisibles of the show...*yawn NEXT!